At yesterday a colleague said, she was going to marry, because should buy the house catching two people early together; Not long ago, the friend said that wanted to get married, because wanted a child, life was not really too interesting; Also hear not only a person says so, the other side get married, if the other side have still good condition   There are many reasons to get married, but does not know why is all that the such one is reluctant. Let people unable to recognize the compositions of the happiness, anger, grief and joy in the emotion. I seem hear pieces of someone say he going to marry, like, love a person very much very much for a long time, because want and another person is eternal and together.

Once saw a passage that a authoress of Hong Kong wrote on the book: "Have we already been in a chicken ribs era? There is too much food but tasteless favor things hesitating to discard sth. in life. Have it to the marriage, undertaking, to the boxed meal that is swallowed hurriedly at noon. "

Can feel a kind of sad one that does not see tears while reading this section of characters, life seems to be always building one and another defects.

I make a phone call to the friend at time of a university one day, I know the blind date which she is not stopping since a very long time, but always there is not a satisfied one. Do then I ask her whether have expected too much? Is it well educated and high to want that kind and well paid stature? Because is very familiar, the area talks in professional jargon in my tone.

But she says with a smile, no. She gets these either value very much, in fact blindly date or purpose is very strong, get married going straight, but she does not have that kind of feeling. I know this kind so long as person that feel, most difficult a successful one blindly date, can't help, ask her what kind of feeling of marriage does it want really?

"I just hope when I am unhappy, he can let me think he will have been at my side all the time, comfort anything, hold I just, a little, a little, say he can love me very much straight while being tight while being tight "

I can feel her expression strengthens, the meaning that no silk jokes. It is a little moved that I suddenly thought. As if seen the light of a silk tender feeling in the city that can't penetrate in this even moonlight.

I do not think I may require the other side to let me feel lovesickness secretly, the hard one keeps Hou, or the continuous one is loved. Light wind is clear that my marriage only needs the cloud, do little by little without a break. But propose to me, because marriage can bring what 's actual interests it will be he as him one day, but because that meaning of the marriage in his life. I hope he could give me a reason at that time, would tell me that he wanted to keep with me, spend every happiness, anger, grief and joy in the life together, keep until old together, even just at that time